In Memoriam: Michael Bacon
NEWBURGH, N.Y. — Michael Bacon, assistant coach at Newburgh Free Academy, has died at the age of forty-two. Bacon was an incredibly active and dedicated member of the New York, Northeast, and national debate communities for many years in both policy and Lincoln-Douglas debate.
An e-mail message from Sheryl Kaczmarek, director of debate at Newburgh Free Academy, read in part: “Newburgh Free Academy debate is very, very sorry to announce the death of longtime assistant coach Michael Bacon. We will miss him very much, and we know that he had an impact on many of you and your students as well. Unfortunately, we know nothing more than the media has reported, that Michael was found dead in a woods near a rest area off of I-84 and that his death has been referred to as a suicide by the local TV news. Michael’s mother knows that the debate community was a substantial part of Michael’s family and I believe we had Michael with us for as long as we did because of debate.”
This space is to help us remember and celebrate the life of Michael Bacon.
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Posted from: 66.108.94.165
November 20th, 2007 06:56
Michael was one of the most supportive coaches I’ve ever met in debate — I really can’t believe I’m writing this in the past tense — and one of the nicest people I’ve ever met, well, anywhere. His passion for the activity was always a source of inspiration for me, and his sense of fun was always a source of enthusiasm for my students. I just can’t imagine an area tournament without him, and will miss tab room and cafeteria talks about rounds, LD practice, films, pop culture, and our shared love of debate pomp and circumstance. I am still numb and I am still in disbelief.
This week, I will be reflecting on how thankful I am to have known Michael and to have had him be a part of my life. My thoughts are with him, his family, and his extended family: the NFA team.
Posted from: 64.75.117.1
November 20th, 2007 07:14
I’d like to extend our condolences to the family of Mr. Bacon and to the NFA team on behalf of the Monticello Team.
Michael Bacon was an extremely inspiring member of our debate family, as well as the debate community in general. He was always more than happy to help and discuss debate or anything else with any student who asked and we are shocked that he is not with us any longer.
Personally, Michael was always there to help me at anytime, as well as joke around and make debate tournaments so much more fun. Debate tournaments just aren’t going to be the same without him there.
Our condolences to Ms. Kaczmarek and the rest of the NFA team, as well as Michael’s family.
Posted from: 163.153.27.171
November 20th, 2007 07:40
Mr Bacon was THE nicest guy on the circuit by far. He was one of the first people I had met in the community, even before I had started debating. Even though I wasnt on his team, he spent time teaching me the basics of LD and telling me about the specifics of debate. His RFDs after rounds were probably some of the most useful ones Ive ever heard or recieved. He always made tournaments a great place to be because his laidback and cheerful demeanor gave, what would have been a cut throat tournament, a calm ambiance. He really was an amazing guy who helped make LD a more welcoming event. I am still in disbelief about this whole situation. I, on behalf of the Niskayuna team, would like to extend our condolences to all of his family, relatives, and friends
Posted from: 69.253.230.13
November 20th, 2007 08:14
Michael Bacon was (that is such a weird way to start a sentence) my favorite judge; I am by no means saying that solely in light of recent events. Although I literally met him only a handful of times, his fantastically nice misdemeanor truly stuck out in a community so often dominated by snide remarks and conceitedness. Although I didn’t know him nearly as well as a plethora of others did, I know that Bacon definitely changed me as a debater…and therefore as a person. I remember, he saw me at Yale standing around with my mom and told me he remembered judging me in outrounds at Pennsbury last year, and that he was impressed. I certainly can’t think of too many judges who would remember judging a disorganized freshman, let alone claim to be impressed. This year, when I had theory run on me for the first time, he helped me to get more strategic at answering it. I can think of a zillion examples like that of his superfluous help to everyone, and his unwavering kindness.
Of course, I extend my condolences to not just Bacon’s family, friends, and team, but also to anyone taking the time to read this. I know he touched you somehow.
Posted from: 69.48.155.2
November 20th, 2007 08:17
While I did not have a very close relationship with Mr. Bacon, I have observed his coaching at many tournaments and I have been judged by him on multiple occasions. He was a really nice guy and it’s very tragic that his life had to end this way.
My condolences to everyone.
Posted from: 151.188.213.148
November 20th, 2007 08:24
Words fail to define my feelings. Mike was a truly nice person (they are few and far between). Forget about the debate stuff, which is important, Mike was kind and willing to do what ever he could to help people. I had been out of the activity for 10 years and pulled up next NFA on the street in front of Bronx Science and Mike was there. It was like I had never left. We spoke at the Bump on Friday night in the rain about politics and that was the last time I saw Mike. To Sheryl and NFA I offer my deepest condolences. Has anyone thought of doing something in his name?
Posted from: 141.150.147.210
November 20th, 2007 08:30
The University High School of the Humanities would like to send our condolences to Michael Bacon’s family and NFA. Mike’s contributions to his team and the greater debate community were relentless. In some way, at some point Mike impacted us all. We hope that debaters across the country will take a moment to reflect and celebrate the life of a debate hero.
Posted from: 163.153.27.171
November 20th, 2007 08:55
Beyond being an amazing and supportive judge, Michael Bacon was one of the nicest people I had met through debate or otherwise.His dedication to the activity and to helping people, regardless of who’s team they were on or how much rep they had,was something genuinely refreshing. He was always willing to help me out in getting around, finding rooms, and in just being a nice guy. Niskayuna will miss his cheery demeanor and hope that his family and Newburgh Debate will be allright and we extend our condolences to them. Rest in peace Mike.
Posted from: 165.155.200.147
November 20th, 2007 09:10
I just started coaching high school debate and he was the guy I saw everywhere. The last time I saw him was at Monticello when one of my debaters lost her cell phone and he found it and she ran up and gave him a big hug. He was everywhere - coaching, judging, tabbing, joking, teaching, and finding lost property of debaters! His passion for the activity knew no limits and engulfed anyone around him. He has impacted countless students, teachers, schools and teams and those waves will last forever. Please let us know if our school and team can do anything.
Sincerely,
Erik Fogel
Bronx School for Law
Posted from: 65.120.76.32
November 20th, 2007 09:27
Mike was a extraordinarily creative — sometimes infuriatingly so — debate mind. He was very kind to me as I started participating in the New York policy debate world, and I began to consider him a good friend. We had long talks about the current state and future of policy debate, and, despite his expressed frustrations, his firm and fierce belief in the educational power of debate was inspiring.
I’m sure we all wish we could have told him his positive impact one more time.
Rest in peace, Mike. We’ll miss you.
Posted from: 165.155.200.9
November 20th, 2007 10:05
My first experiences with the debate community were not very pleasant…until I met Mike Bacon. He was a kind soul who taught me why debate is so much fun and why we sacrifice so much for it. I owe him so much, and I never conveyed that to him. I thought there was plenty of time for that.
Thank you, Mike. I miss you already, but you will always have a place in my heart.
Posted from: 209.213.207.2
November 20th, 2007 12:05
Mike Bacon was an amazing member of the debate community. It takes a selfless individual to be an educator, but it takes an extraordinary one to be a debate coach.
For the four years I debated in high school, I saw Mike nearly every weekend. He was always excited about debate. His enthusiasm and love of debate was infectious.
I only have the best memories of him and I know a huge void will be left in the debate community due to his absence.
Posted from: 76.21.214.31
November 20th, 2007 12:22
I debated for Mike and Sheryl at NFA from 1996-1999, and it saddens me deeply to learn of his death. He was a very generous spirit, and helped me grow so much as a debater and person. Mike sacrificed many weekends for the debate team–for high schoolers like me that moaned and groaned, hyperventilated before rounds, and talked back far more than we should have.
Mike, you were a very positive force in my life and I will miss you.
Posted from: 216.49.159.164
November 20th, 2007 12:30
Michael was my judge at Manchester, and he was one of the best judges I’ve ever had. He was really funny and told me several ways in which I could become a better debater. I can’t believe this happened.
RIP
Posted from: 69.121.162.215
November 20th, 2007 12:32
My jaw is wide open as i sit here and write this comment. Mr. Bacon was the type of person who was always there to put a smile on your face. I know how cliche that sounds, but it’s simply the truth. He always found a way to make a joke out of a stressful situation, and I will certainly miss him a lot for that.
Mike, you were instrumental in nurturing my love of debate, and i will always be thinking of you.
Kaz, and Mike’s family (including the NFA debaters), I hope you all can find some solace in these comments.
Posted from: 163.153.27.11
November 20th, 2007 12:35
Michael Bacon was definitely the most supportive member of debate community for me. It is only because of him that I found my passion for debate. I remember when he invited me to my first round robin (which I ended up not attending) sophmore year with other new debaters. That gesture, while small, meant a whole lot to me. Anybody could tell me that I had potential, but I knew that Mr. Bacon was always genuine when he told me so. He showed me that I could achieve whatever I wanted even though I didn’t have the help of national circuit coaches or the ability to fly to every major national tournament. In addition, he gave me THE most constructive criticism out of anybody I’ve ever known (including teachers and other debaters). I don’t say this lightly. He had a way of gently exposing my shortcomings and encouraging improvement which was truly unique and irreplaceable.
I’m very upset that I did not take the opportunity to know him more as a person. I know a lot about his judging and coaching philosophy, but I never asked for his favorite food or what he did in his spare time. I can’t believe that I let such opportunities pass me by.
Rest in Peace Mike
Posted from: 71.169.41.3
November 20th, 2007 12:53
…I was incredibly shocked to find out. Words fail me, however I do know one thing. I feel more sorry for future debaters, for not getting to know him, then anyone else.
Posted from: 68.199.3.0
November 20th, 2007 13:24
Michael Bacon was a friend and mentor to me since my first year in debate. I’m in utter disbelief. Tournaments simply won’t be the same for me anymore without Mike there to make me smile at any random time. He will seriously be missed. I speak for myself and I know all of Hen Hud when I say that we are deeply saddened and here to support Newburgh in coping with their loss in any way we can.
Posted from: 71.123.192.89
November 20th, 2007 13:34
The Grapevine Debate squad and me in particular would like to extend our condolences to the Bacon Family, NFA squad, and to Sheryl who was a devoted friend and co-worker with Mike for many years. I have been coaching at Grapevine for 20 years and have known Mike for the better part of that time. He was always nice, kind, and very supportive of me as I was trying to build a program. He remained a loyal friend even after Grapevine became competitive on the national level. Since I have made the transition to coaching mostly LD, I didn’t see him as much and I miss that. God Bless you Mike Bacon - I hope you have the peace you deserve.
Posted from: 71.123.192.89
November 20th, 2007 13:35
or I as the grammatical bug got me… see above.
Posted from: 24.46.207.84
November 20th, 2007 13:42
Although I did not personally know Mr. Bacon, I had always heard from multiple of the my friends that he was an extremely nice person. Also, I had seen him on various occasions that he was very supportive of other debaters regardless of if they were on from his team or not, which tells me that he was genuinely and very nice person who loves the activity. I would like to extend my condolences to Mr. Bacon’s family and to the NFA Team on behalf of the Half Hollow Hills Team.
Posted from: 12.154.67.140
November 20th, 2007 13:46
Mike was the nicest persons in the debate community by far, and I will miss him very much. He always had encouragement for me as a coach, and praise for my debaters - even when they were still learing. Without Mike’s encouragement and honesty , the Yorktown High School Debate program wouldn’t be what it is today, because without his kindness I would never have had the courage to pursue the circuit. Mike was an oasis of kindness in a world dominated by back-biting, exclusion, and rudeness. I will miss Mike very much, especially at CFL’s every May.
H.
Posted from: 68.29.69.170
November 20th, 2007 14:03
Carrollton School of the Sacred Heart debate wishes to send Michael’s family our love and support. Mike was a great teacher and friend to the students whose lives he encountered
Posted from: 69.120.236.168
November 20th, 2007 14:05
Michael Bacon was one of the nicest guys on the circuit. I didn’t know him all that well, but all of my encounters with him were incredibly positive. His slightly bizarre sense of humor always lightened the stressful mood of debate tournaments. For those of you who didn’t get a chance to know him, I’ll give an example. At Manchester, we were standing in the elementary school and all the walls, the children had posted paragraphs about themselves. One child wrote, “I like to play Xbox 360 on my flat screen TV.” After reading it out loud, Bacon turned to me and said, “Guess who I’m robbing tonight.” He was just such an intelligent man who was always ready to discuss debate. I remember last year when I’d talk to my captain, he’d always say things like, “I just talked to Bacon and got this great idea!” It’s just such a tragedy and I know I speak for all of Byram Hills and the debate community when I say he’ll be sorely missed. The Byram Hills MHL tabroom will always feel a little bit empty without him. Sleep easy.
Posted from: 69.48.155.2
November 20th, 2007 14:28
The Scarsdale debate team would like to send our deepest sympathy to the Bacon family, Sheryl and the NFA debaters. It was clear from every interaction with Michael what a dedicated and caring professional he was. Due to his commitment to education and his willingness to share his knowledge, every one of my debaters can point to some way in which Michael’s guidance made them a better debater.
More importantly, Michael was a model for kindness and decency. He had a kind word for every kid and the keen eye to see each student’s potential. Michael’s mission seemed to be to support the up-and-coming debater. He understood the value of our activity and wanted as many people to experience what one could get out of it. He was instrumentally supportive of so many Scarsdale debaters in their attempts to improve themselves and their debating. We are truly sorry if we didn’t say “Thank you” enough because Michael deserved more than our thanks, he deserves and has our respect and deepest gratitude.
Michael will be missed.
Posted from: 70.107.95.195
November 20th, 2007 15:15
I did not get a chance to know Mr. Bacon well until this summer at the DDI, he really loved working with all the kids. A couple moments I remember are when he would play cards with the debaters in the evening while discussing strategy for the upcoming tournaments. Bacon was always willing to help people with any questions they had about arguments or just in general with problems they had. I know he will be severely missed. condolences to his family and the NFA team.
Posted from: 69.206.166.147
November 20th, 2007 15:21
The Monticello debate team wishes to express our deepest sympathy to the NFA team, Sheryl and the Bacon Family. I personally owe a lot to Michael for being a strong support system for me when I first took over the team. He helped me to reinforce what true character is in my debaters. They truly valued every conversation and interaction they had with Michael because they understood his commitment to the activity and to every student he came across. My students have been fortunate to work closely with Michael and appreciate what he recognized as the value of debate. I thank him for helping to instill those values in my students.
The Monticello debate team wants to display our gratitude to Michael Bacon by offering any and all assistance and support to the NFA team during your time of need.
Posted from: 24.161.116.111
November 20th, 2007 15:21
I had the privilege and honor of being a student of Michael’s from 1994-1998 on the NFA debate team. Michael was a coach, a mentor, an advocate, and most of all a friend. From the beginning it was evident that his true passion was not winning or losing but developing young and eager students into confident human beings who were advocates for change. In Newburgh, where the opportunities for such growth were limited, he devoted over 14 years of his life to turn NFA debate into a thriving program in spite of budgetary and bureaucratic restraints. Michael and Sheryl’s love for their students and fellow debaters in the community was always evident. Unfortunately it takes such a devastating loss to fully realize the void that has been left with Michael’s passing. I count myself in the lucky few that can say they had the opportunity to be coached by Michael Bacon. My thoughts and prayers are with Sheryl, his family, and his extended family within the NFA Debate team.
Posted from: 69.118.143.130
November 20th, 2007 15:46
I was always shocked to the point of confusion at how nice Mike was to me. I soon realized that his helpful comments and invitations to round robins were just the ways that he tried to communicate his love for education and debate to those around him. He was warm and open in a scenario where most people are more worried about things as arbitrary as winning a round or breaking at a tournament. His death is a true loss to all those who knew him. Rest in peace.
Posted from: 207.237.8.202
November 20th, 2007 15:56
I met Michael Bacon last year at my first tournament and right away I could see right away that he was an amazing coach who not only had a clear love for debate but also wanted to do everything that he possibly could to make others love it as much as he did. My condolences to his family as well as the entire NFA community.
Posted from: 70.18.136.208
November 20th, 2007 16:06
Michael, we miss you.
My neighbor and my coach.
Posted from: 24.45.15.243
November 20th, 2007 16:07
I did not know Michael Bacon before this year, but have since been judged by him a number of times. When I talked with him about my rounds his comments were always helpful and direct while at the same time full of humor. It is scary to hear this news, and I am in shock to find out someone I had so recently gotten used to seeing around the circuit is so suddenly no longer with us. My thoughts are with his family and the NFA Debate team.
Posted from: 71.247.72.57
November 20th, 2007 16:16
I met Mike Bacon at my very first tournament. As a novice, having no idea what to do he kindly welcomed me into the debate world. From that day on; I saw him at almost every other tournament. I Thank such a great man, who warmed the hearts of so many. My condolences to his family as well as the entire NFA community.
Posted from: 24.61.93.247
November 20th, 2007 16:42
Michael Bacon played a central role in continuing New York and New England Debate, and besides providing a judge and coach, he provided the encouragement many debaters needed to continue to grow in such a challenging activity.
He judged me multiple times, and always had jokes and productive criticism for both teams. He seemed to be an unchangeable part of high school debate. I send my condolences, and I know that I, Bishop Guertin Debate, and the community as a whole will miss him. Tournaments won’t be the same without his tiger shirt and his support.
Posted from: 68.117.35.251
November 20th, 2007 16:45
My goodness, what a loss!
I went to debate camp with Mike and then ran into him while he was still coaching in Wisconsin. Mike loved debate in every way.
Andy Charrier.
Posted from: 69.249.79.130
November 20th, 2007 17:31
Although I have only had the privilege of being judged by Michael a few times, I can say that I appreciated the times I was in his presence. I will most remember his bubbling humor and his comical paradigms “speed is an illegal narcotic, but I can flow pretty well.” He was a great man and from what I have heard, a fantastic coach and friend. I wish I could say I knew more of the man than the occasional hello in the hallways or a constructive criticism after a round. I was shocked and saddened to hear this news and my prayers go out to the NFA team and all of mr. bacon’s family. Rest in peace
Posted from: 71.233.43.2
November 20th, 2007 17:48
Bacon was one of the most influential and inspirational judge and coach i have ever met. His comical paradigm - as sam james said - “speed is an illegal narcotic”
He was the always at tournments and was very kind and joyful to be around. The Northeast let alone the national circuit of debate will never be the same
I extend my deepest condolonces from myself and the rest of the Lexington Team to the NFA team and his family
Posted from: 169.226.75.132
November 20th, 2007 18:01
Wow. Nothing else.
Posted from: 64.12.116.76
November 20th, 2007 18:18
Micheal will be truly missed. I really didn’t know him well until this year and the only thing that comforts at this moment is the fact that I did get to interact with him even if only for a short period of time. The fact that I didn’t go to a “debate powerhouse” didn’t change how he treated me or his willingness to help me. In the first round he judged me not only did he spend time discussing how to adjust my case position to make it more effective he also spent the time to give my opponent a 15min tutorial on debate. He will be greatly missed by northeast debaters and all those who knew him.
Posted from: 66.32.8.139
November 20th, 2007 18:30
Wow, this is really shocking and depressing, because I was actually thinking of him at GBN. His judging and critique after my rounds were superb, educational, and very supportive, and I’m terribly sad that he had to die so young.
Posted from: 72.80.231.52
November 20th, 2007 18:50
Michael Bacon, was one of the nicest people, that I have ever met at any of the tournaments I’ve been to. Not only was he a respectable individual, but he was a very loyal friend to the those, who he coached, judged or just joked around with. He will be greatly missed. My prayers are with the Bacon family and his team.
Posted from: 162.84.183.113
November 20th, 2007 19:01
Michael Bacon was one of the most interesting characters on the debate scene. I remember the rounds that he judged me in vividly– he would always say “I really didn’t want to vote for this but..” The thing was, we always won. I can never remember Michael Bacon, as much as I knew he wanted to (and justified in doing so), dropping us. The last memory I have of Mr. Bacon was not long ago– about 3 weeks ago at the Manchester tournament wherein his team beat us in finals. I can tell that Mr. Bacon was always a dedicated coach from not only the success of his team, but also the passion that he imbued in his debaters.
He was definitely an asset to the Big Bronx tournament, the Northeastern circuit, and the National debate scene.
R.I.P. Michael Bacon.
Posted from: 71.169.18.227
November 20th, 2007 19:20
Michael, you were one of the most influential individuals I have ever met on the long road of life. You still continue to be an inspiration to me and my fellow teammates. Even in death, your spirit lives on in our memories and experiences with you. Personally, you were a second father to me. I was with you constantly after school and on tournaments and I will always cherish those amazing memories. Your ironic and unique humor will be missed along with your invaluable coaching and the incredible life lessons I have learned from you. Even though you are not here physically you are in the hearts and minds of our family, friends, and most of all our large, multi-cultured, dysfunctional family that is the Newburgh debate team. We miss you.
Posted from: 75.193.79.115
November 20th, 2007 19:42
This is a very sad day for the debate community and an even sadder day for the future debate community. There are some very special people that dedicate their lives to the debate community. We were fortunate to have two of the best right near us in Michael Bacon and Sheryl Kaczmarek. When Sheryl and Michael came to Newburgh two decades ago we hit it off immediately because of their connection to our great state of Wisconsin. I couldn’t even begin to count the number of tournaments or rounds of judging or tab rooms admiminstered that we passed the time by discussing Wisonsin Badger sports and Wisconsin sports in general. Try as I might I could never convince Michael that the Packers were better than the Cowboys. Here we agreed to disagree. Michael also loved my children. He gave my boys their first Wisconsin Badger outfit. He was always so excited to see them; much like he was always so excited to see the debaters on the circuit that he grew to cherish year after year. He brought energy, excitement and integrity to our activity of debate; but especially to our lives. Oh Michael, we are going to miss you! You have touched us all and we are better for it.
To echo Sabrina, to Sheryl and all the NFA team members, we are just up the mountain and offer our assistance in whatever way possible. You are in our ever waking thoughts and constant prayers.
Posted from: 162.83.154.93
November 20th, 2007 19:58
It saddens me to write this comment. Reflecting on all my experiences with Mr. Bacon only brings back memories of debate rounds. However, those rounds were probably the most fun and educational I’ve ever had, not only because of Mr. Bacon’s impeccable sense of humor, but also his extraordinary intelligence when it came to debate, especially the relationship between L/D and policy. Mr. Bacon was a unique asset to the debate community because he embraced all kinds of debate, simply because, as Todd said, he believed in the educational power of debate. I am stunned that Mr. Bacon has left us, but I hope that people will recognize and embody Mr. Bacon’s love and commitment for his team and debate in general.
Posted from: 68.52.125.121
November 20th, 2007 20:17
What a shame; what a loss. Mike was a genuinely kind and giving person. To know of his apprent heartache gives me pause. Competitive debaters are a community in the best and worst senses of that word. Mike was a very important member of our community, and I am very sad to see him go.
I know I will spend this Thanksgiving week making sure I tell my friends how much they mean to me.
Posted from: 68.193.253.36
November 20th, 2007 20:35
The ALJ Speech and Debate Team and I extend our deepest sympathies and sorrow and devastation to the Bacons, Sheryl, and the Newburgh Team on Michael’s death. This is a great loss to our community, and should remind us all of what is truly important.
Mike was a presence in this community for me since I began back in 1998. He was always focused on the other–on the people we are, as coaches (and, frankly, as humans) here to help–the other debaters, the other coaches, the other judges–the other–not on himself. All he did was to make people find within themselves the way to debate better, and to think better, and to be better.
I shall miss him.
We shall miss him.
BC
Posted from: 74.68.51.212
November 20th, 2007 20:53
“I know I will spend this Thanksgiving week making sure I tell my friends how much they mean to me. ”
absolutley.
Posted from: 24.90.20.221
November 20th, 2007 20:55
Michael Bacon was one of few coaches in this activity that disregarded all the frills associated with debate, and participated solely because of his love and desire for the educational aspect he believed debate was based on. He helped anyone, whether they were TOC qualified or a local debater. Michael was an example that we should all follow. He evaluated people as people, not debaters and people. His light-hearted and uplifting sense of humor was always there to lift a debaters spirits. In and out of rounds he was the same person, regarldess of how intense the tournament was at that point. Michael Bacon truly loved debate.
The Bronx Science team and I will miss you Michael. Rest in peace.
Posted from: 146.115.112.5
November 20th, 2007 21:02
I didn’t know Michael Bacon terribly well. My only real contact with him was when he was in the tabroom at the Lexington Tournament year after year. His sense of humor and general good cheer certainly brightened the room. Even though I wasn’t terribly successful and didn’t know him very well, Mr. Bacon always remembered my name and said hi when we passed at a tournament. He’ll be greatly missed. My condolences (and those of the entire Lexington team) go out to his family, friends, and students at this difficult time.
Posted from: 24.161.106.111
November 20th, 2007 21:15
Michael Bacon was undoubtedly one of the most influential coaches in my debate career. His advice in the many rounds that he judged me was unique and very different from that of any other coach or judge and it was always helpful. Bacon had a presence at Northeast and national tournaments that will never be forgotten. I will never forget playing go fish with him at Vestavia all tournament last year. He was always there to spice up tournament life with stories or a card game. I am glad that I had the opportunity to judge on a panel with him this year at the Monticello Tournament. This past Saturday I had the pleasure of judging a Newburgh LD debater at Villiger. It is amazing how in such a short time Bacon was able to establish as successful LD team and I hope the they will continue to progress with great fervor in his memory. Rest in peace Bacon, you will be greatly missed.
Posted from: 67.184.216.70
November 20th, 2007 21:36
I was fortunate enough to debate for Michael and Sheryl at NFA from 1994-1998. Words cannot describe the impact that they had on my life. Despite being an unruly (and probably obnoxious) teenager, Michael never seemed to lose patience with me. He gave his time, energy, and wisdom to an activity that helped mold many young lives. His commitment was unfailing, and his creativity in argument was endless. Michael was more than a coach to his students, he was a friend. It deeply saddens me that it took such a tragedy for me to realize what debate would be like without Michael Bacon. I’m thankful that I had the opportunity to learn from him. My thoughts are with Sheryl, the Bacon family, and the NFA debate team.
Posted from: 67.136.71.146
November 20th, 2007 22:13
I was only lucky enough to meet Michael once, but his love of the activity was obvious. I’m tremendously saddened by this news. My thoughts and prayers are with Michael’s family and the NFA debate team. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Posted from: 24.91.209.53
November 20th, 2007 22:15
I still remember the first time I met Bacon… he was judging me in my bid round at Manchester (and I was looking for that qual). Needless to say, I was terrified and nervous. After the round, Bacon made one of his trademark sarcastic remarks and his sense of humor struck me immediately.
After that tournament, Michael was a familiar face. A good friend of my own coach, Lynne Coyne, Bacon spent a good deal of time with us. Whenever he was around me in one of my nervous breakdowns he’d point out my stupidity to me. His demeanor, his banter, everything about him used to make me laugh. He truly brought joy to my stressful weekends of debate. Even when he was reprimanding me for resorting to theory, or telling me off for my poor time allocation, he managed to make me laugh at myself. Between him, Kaz, and Lynne, I could never be dumb and get away with it.
I remember how fondly I talked of him to my fellow debaters as well…just this year, a lexington debater had Bacon judging him and everyone on our team said the same thing “Bacon? really?! You’re all set man just go win!”
I already miss you Bacon. I’m glad I saw you once this year, I know I haven’t come back to judge enough and it’s a shame.
My thoughts go out to Kaz, the Bacon family, and the Newburgh team.
RIP
Posted from: 24.161.106.159
November 20th, 2007 22:58
I will always remember how I would see Michael at nearly every tournament I was at last year, and how after every round, my partner and myself would go and talk to him about what had just transpired. We viewed him as one of our own coaches, and he could always put in perspective why what we thought was an unfair loss to how we actually got the beat down of our lives.
I remember when I met him in the Tab room of my tournament last year, and I remember how he would explain things to me very simply yet I would come away with the knowledge that I needed. That was just the man he was, he could explain anything from debate, no matter the complexity to a perfect stranger and they would be able to understand it.
He will be missed, by myself, and so many more.
Posted from: 69.118.124.87
November 21st, 2007 06:46
You spend time with someone week after week, and they’re just a part of your life. Who else would BEG you to get put into a round because he wanted to learn more about LD? He loved music, sports, debate, spades, You Don’t Know Jack, but not Italian food, no matter how much we tried to show him the error of his ways. He loved seeing both debaters get 30 points so he could contemplate the idea of the perfect loser. He loved debaters, of all stripes and persuasions. He was fun to be around, and always full of spirit. Reading everything everyone has written here emphasizes our loss as a community, but helps us get through it. We’ll miss you, Mr.Bacon.
Posted from: 151.198.226.100
November 21st, 2007 09:37
On behalf of Whippany Park’s debate team, I would like to express our sadness and heartfelt condolences to the NFA debaters, to Sheryl, and to Michael’s family on the horrible news of his passing. Michael was a great ambassador for debate and a genuinely nice human being. He had a tremendous amount of integrity as a coach and a judge, and my students have only benefitted from his insightful comments. When I saw his name on the schem, I knew that those students would be the recipients of some of the best judging around. What a terrible piece of news, but we hope and pray that Michael has found peace and will continue to remember the grieving in our thoughts and prayers.
Posted from: 68.117.11.143
November 21st, 2007 09:38
I was crushed when I heard the news and have spent the last day thinking about Michael. When I first started coaching, he was one of my most influential mentors. When he found out I was from Wisconsin, he went out of his way to share stories and to talk sports (even if he did root for the Cowboys). While I didn’t have as many interactions with him over the last couple of years (our travel schedules didn’t match up quite as well as they used to) as I would have liked, I still cherish the times that we were able to talk about his days at Brookfield Central, the Brewers, and the future of debate. We spent a lot of time together at Lexington, Ohio Valley, and the NFA tournament in 2003 and those remain some of my most cherished debate experiences.
I will conclude with two thoughts:
1. We don’t do enough to communicate to each other how much we truly love each other and value our relationships. Michael probably never knew how much of an influence he had on me during my early coaching career, and for that I am terribly regretful. If there is anything positive that I hope to take from Michael’s death it will be a renewed commitment to make sure I thank my mentors and friends for their inspiration and support.
2. I asked some of my students yesterday if they knew Michael and unfortunately they did not. The most terrible thing about his passing is that my current and future students will not have the chance to interact with him, whether at tournaments or at the DDI. When I saw him interacting with students, I saw someone who had found their calling. He might not have been the best judge or the best coach in the country, but he was one of the most passionate educators I have ever encountered. The void that his passing creates is enormous and will be with us for a long time.
My thoughts go out to Sheryl, the NFA debate family, and all of Michael’s many friends and colleagues. I’ll still be rooting for the Packers next week, but I’ll be doing so while thinking about Michael.
Bill Batterman
Marquette University HS
Milwaukee, WI
Posted from: 209.80.137.250
November 21st, 2007 10:07
Needham High School sends its’ deepest sympathies and condolences to Michael’s families and friends.
I will remember Michael’s wisdom and insight into debate and education, but also the conversations we had. Michael helped and taught not only his own debaters, but also others, and I well remember my students coming back from a round they were blessed to have Mike judge, talking about the feedback they had received.
It has many several years since the Bump Tournament had participants in the Bumpdome, but I will always remember seeing Michael in that Dome, in the Manchester gymnasium, in the Lexington Science Lecture Hall, in the Newburgh auditorium, with a smile on his face and a humorous comment coming out of his mouth.
All of our best-
PJ Wexler
Needham High School Speech and Debate
Posted from: 65.115.138.93
November 21st, 2007 15:23
I have never had the privelege of being judged by Michael Bacon, though I have heard a lot about his fantastic RFD’s, and judging policies for LD debate. It really saddens me that such a genuine, helpfull, and excellent judge will never be able to contribute anything to LD debate again. The debate community has truly lost a great judge, and a great person.
RIP MIchael Bacon.
Posted from: 69.81.115.35
November 21st, 2007 16:45
I, as Michael’s sister, would like everyone to know what a devastating loss this was to our family. Although he lived far away for many years, he was an intregal part of our family.
Reading all of your comments make this tragedy easier to bear. We weren’t part of his debate life and it has let us in on his “family” we didn’t know.
We will always be happy that he had debate and that it meant so much to him. We are also very grateful for his long time friendship with Sheryl. We wish the NFA debate team continued success. It is wonderful to know that Michael will not be forgotten and that all you all have wonderful memories of him.
Thank you for all of your support- The Bacon Family
Posted from: 71.169.55.41
November 21st, 2007 16:59
My heart goes out to Kaz and the rest of the NFA team, as well as to the Bacon family.
I don’t have much to add, other than to echo my appreciation of everything Bacon has done for the debate community. I didn’t know him very well, but he worked closely with policy debaters from Monticello and I know how much they admired his coaching and friendship. As everyone has said, he was a staple of Northeast debate, and I’ll miss seeing him nearly every weekend. May he rest in peace.
Posted from: 69.134.16.205
November 21st, 2007 19:10
When I found out about this yesterday, I was in shock. Mr. Bacon had been one of the most influential roles in my deciding to change styles, and when he judged me he told me that it was possible to completely switch styles without having to completely scrap my strategy. His entire ballot he wrote comments at to how I could change my style, and still had an amazing decision calculus. As a judge i will sorely miss him.
Outside of rounds, Bacon was the most positive person I have ever met. He was consistently upbeat and even when kids came with bad news he would cheer them on and tell them they still had next round. He knew what a loss meant to debaters and he spent a lot of time deciding round so as to make sure he was completely fair. Ill miss him as a friend and a mentor. Rest in Peace, and remember that many will miss you,
Mo
Posted from: 24.60.114.129
November 21st, 2007 20:47
I didn’t know Michael well, but we had one of the most enlightening conversations about LD in general in a very short 45 minutes last year at the TOC. He put things I’d only vaguely felt in a clear insightful way.
I’ve mostly coached extemp these past years; he made me miss debate a lot, all of a sudden.
It was enough to make me want another talk with him, and another. I guess the thing to learn is we should take our chances to connect like that with the other great people in this world of debate as much as we can, and show them how much it means to us when we do.
Big warm hugs to Kaz and the NFA team. I can only imagine what it’s like for them.
Chris Palmer
Posted from: 151.202.83.127
November 21st, 2007 20:54
This is really a shocking time for me as well as everyone (even those outside of debate) in the halls of Bronx Science. Mr. Bacon was an amazing personality and an amazing person and it pains me to know that I only had one year to get to know him. His very presence always brightened a bad day for everyone, and he truly acted as a mentor and a friend, not only to his own debaters but for everyone.
Sometimes we as debaters fail to put our competition aside and realize the amazing people we have met in and outside of debate, it really takes an event like this to put things in perspective. Mr. Bacon was not only an awesome debate coach and teacher, but an amazing person, hopefully we all can learn a few things from him.
The best wishes and deepest condolences of myself, and everyone at Bronx Science, go out to Michael’s family, Ms. Kaczmarek, and the entire NFA debate team.
Posted from: 76.118.22.140
November 22nd, 2007 06:21
To not see Michael at the next tournament (and the next, and the next) after a million or so years of coaching is going to be hard. Something will be missing from debate from here on out, but it’s precisely because of what Michael added to the activity for me and many of my students. I don’t think I can add much to what’s already been said because Michael was indeed one of the kindest and most fun people in this or any other community. My students have benefitted from both his warmth and his insights in and out of rounds, as have I; and we will all miss him. At the same time I hope we’ll all see fit to remember on this Thanksgiving how much we all meant to him too. What he got from debate and debate people was more important than we ever realized; and I think the best way to honor him is to remember that in how we see each other, and the sense of community we bring to tournament after tournament. Slán abhaile, Mihail…safe home.
Posted from: 24.164.167.157
November 22nd, 2007 22:20
On behalf of every member of the NFA debate team, I would like to thank everyone for all the love and support we have gotten over these past few days. Micheal Bacon was not only my personal mentor for the past 5 years, but also one of my best friends. He will be sorely missed by all of us on the team, and to see how much everyone else cares is a reminder of how much of an effect Micheal had on all of us. Words cannot begin to express the sorrow we all have, and knowing that all of you are behind us will help move the grieving process along. Thank you all so very much.
Posted from: 67.82.74.242
November 23rd, 2007 13:18
The Newark Science Debate Team would like to extend our deepest condolences to the Bacon family, Ms. Kaczmarek, and the Newburgh Debate program. Michael will be missed tremendously.
Personally, I always considered Mike a good friend, even though we did not have contact outside of debate. He was a big influence on me, as he must have judged me at least 20 times. He always instilled me with confidence and a sense of efficacy in debate at a time in my life when I was lacking in both those areas. I will always remember his outstanding advice, his passion for the activity, and our friendly banter about the Giants-Cowboys rivalry.
We have lost a great mind and a dedicated coach. I am truly bereaved.
Posted from: 24.13.142.24
November 23rd, 2007 21:52
I first met Mike at the Fargo Nationals in 1992. He and Sheryl were leaving Brookfield in Wisconsin to coach at Glenbrook North. For the next 15 years, our paths crossed often. When he was coaching at GBN and then NFA and I was coaching at San Antonio Clark, Isidore Newman, and now at GBN, we spent many, many times talking about this wonderful activity.
HIs heart was always in the right place - on the students. I beg anyone who goes into this activity as a coach to have the dedication and passion during one day that he had every day. On behalf of my wife Alma, who also knew and respected Mike, and on behalf of the Glenbrook North Debate Team, my condolences to his family. May his page in the Book of Life be read and valued by all.
Posted from: 24.161.32.47
November 24th, 2007 13:07
I just started this year at the Newburgh Debate and Michael was one of the people that got me enthusiastic about debate. I was shocked beyond words to find that he had suddenly left my life and my debate career. It is going to be tough to keep on with debate without having Michael ask after every tournament (or “turnament” as he said it) “what did you learn?”. It is hard to only have experienced three tournaments with him but I will remember these experiences forever. It is going to be difficult to go to the next tournament, but thank you everyone for all your support and sharing.
-Lauren
Posted from: 141.149.122.174
November 24th, 2007 21:37
On behalf of all of the Newburgh debaters, I would like to sincerely thank all of you for your support. Michael was an important figure to everyone he encountered. (I can’t count the number of times I would wait outside his room after the last round of a tournament, listening to his half-hour oral critiques, leaving kids enthusiastically saying either “wow, I just got complemented” or “wow i just got completely embarrased by THE Michael Bacon!”). I am just glad to have had the opportunity to learn from him, day after day, week after week for the past three years.
Michael was one in a million. Unlike most coaches, he didn’t just want me to be a better debater. Ultimately, he wanted me to be a better human being. I entered debate an immature little kid, and I attribute my immense maturation over the past three years to Michael (as well as Kaz). After spending weekend after weekend with him, he became a father figure to me. He coached me through life just as much as debate.
Michael’s ingenuity and versatility, whether in policy or LD, was unmatched. I think I speak for everyone in the debate community when I say that he was more than a great coach. He was a great man, a great mentor, and a great friend. He will surely be missed.
Thank you, all of you, for your condolences in this time of need. But most of all, thank you, Michael, for everything you have given me and my teammates. Rest in peace.
Posted from: 72.68.195.220
November 25th, 2007 14:35
I still remember my first round ever was judged by Bacon at Byram Hills. I also remember the kind words and encouragement he gave me. Although he is no longer with us physically, his spirit and dedication to debate will never leave us.
Posted from: 71.167.122.109
November 25th, 2007 16:09
I remember, not one moment, but four years of high school debate knowing not only who Michael Bacon was, but always seeing him with that sarcastic sense of humor and smiling face, willing to help out. His ballots always made me smile because he didn’t waste words… he always told it like it was, and he only entertained the rest with hilarious commentary and narration. I was shocked when I heard the news… he will most certainly be missed.
Posted from: 69.119.103.28
November 29th, 2007 20:26
We here at Convent of the Sacred Heart, Greenwich, Connecticut send our deepest condolences to Newburgh Free Academy and to Mrs Bacon and Michael’s family. Michael was always so gracious and kind to me and to our team. If we ever have Policy or LD contestants I hope I coach them with one tenth Michael’s skill and talent.
Our prayers for the Bacon family and the NFA Debate family
Paul Grisanti
Posted from: 68.83.83.25
December 5th, 2007 11:05
I come late to this board: much of what I’d say has been said.
I knew Michael for 20 years, since his Wisconsin days. I was a visiting lecturer to the institute Kaz and Michael ran in the early 90s at Lawrence University. It was a phenomenal experiment: two great coaches who believed profoundly that debate could and should be for everyone, and that you didn’t have to lower standards to accomplish that goal. Michael’s creative energy was obvious — lots of ideas per minute, many of them very good, which means he had more good ideas per minute than most of us.
I want to highlight a quality already mentioned by others: Michael was most concerned with the debaters who needed the most help. He was a passionate “small d” democrat who believed that debate should be for everyone. And he persevered, through many obstacles and great frustration.
Michael Bacon is irreplaceable. We should all let Sheryl and Newburgh know that they can depend on us for what they may need.
Posted from: 74.76.253.112
December 5th, 2007 18:46
The first tournament without Mike Bacon has passed…and I found myself looking for him. I first met Mike (or Bacon as we called him) as a naive young policy debater. He was supportive and friendly. I made the switch to LD, and didn’t see him for a while. When I returned as an assistant coach, he was now judging LD, and treted me with the same friendliness and eagerness to both teach and learn. He was one of the first people to congratulate me on becoming coach of a team, and always had something encouraging to say. My regret is that I just assumed Bacon would always be there, as he had n=been in my debate life since 1991. Now there is a void, and I regret taking it for granted, and not being sure to talk to him more. I hope everyone in the debate community strives to emulate his example: openness, humility and friendliness at all times. I already miss you, Bacon.
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December 9th, 2007 09:56
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Posted from: 69.202.86.106
December 10th, 2007 17:12
Although my post comes many days late, this has been on my mind for weeks. From 2000-2004, Michael coached me at NFA. From 2000 on, I got to know Michael, both as a coach and on a more personal level. Whether it was debating, judging, or just being on those hectic bus rides, you could tell he cared very deeply about debate. He always wanted to help, and however stubborn we were as adolescents, he cared too much to give up. Michael, you will truly be missed and it’s unfortunate that I can’t personally tell you how much you changed my life. This thread is a testament to how meaningful you were, and will continue to be, for so many people.
Posted from: 165.161.3.15
December 12th, 2007 09:27
What a terrible loss.
From my days at Ridge, Michael has been one of the most generous and genuine people I met and befriended in debate. All of us in this community will miss him terribly. His intelligence, devotion and willing to help in any way at debate tournaments was unique and he was a true leader in our activity. We need more people like him.
The Royal Palm Beach team and myself want to send our condolences to the Bacon family, NFA and Sheryl.
Dario Camara
Posted from: 64.22.107.90
January 7th, 2008 09:33
Derrico Donna…
I Googled for something completely different, but found your page…and have to say thanks. nice read….
Posted from: 71.205.186.249
January 27th, 2008 23:41
I have just heard the news. I have been out of the debate community for a while now, but I still remember every time I met Michael Bacon. What a guy. He always knew how to make me smile, and was always extremely nice. I still remember him at DDI, and how he would see I was late getting up to my room, and he would start at the other end of the hall so that I wouldn’t get work detail. I don’t think he knew how much I really appreciated small things like that, but they are always the things that stick out in my mind. I could always tell the passion he had in his heart for debate, and it is that showing that will live on. NFA, I send my heart out to you for your loss. Michael is irreplaceable.